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We adopted Asti five years ago (2002) from No. California Pyr Rescue
when he was two. His circumstances were a bit unusual I suppose in
that he did not come from an awful situation; he was not abused so
much as mostly ignored by previous owners. He was two when we adopted
him and, although he seemed to enjoy the attention we gave him, he
did not seek it out until he had been with us for about six months.
It also took several months for us to bond to each other. I think he
must have felt much the way I did; we enjoyed each other's company,
were friendly with one another, but it took time for us to become "family."
I must say he was generally well behaved when we got him so someone
either took some time with him at some point to teach him proper
behavior (he has never jumped up on anyone, ever), or he is one of
those intuitive types. Having said this, he did have some bad habits
not the least of which is that he pulled like a freight train on a
leash. Since he weighs more than I do, I had put a stop to that
immediately.
Time has a way of softening past struggles; so it may have been more
difficult than I remember it. I mostly remember that being
consistently firm with Asti has allowed him to become a very calm,
self-confident, easy-to-be-around dog. He may have been around other
dogs before he came to us as he tolerates all dogs he has met and he
has met many. Also my circumstances may be different in that I work
at home a lot and live in the Santa Cruz mountains so Asti and I
frequent the trails near our home or the dog-friendly beaches daily
and in the process, we have worked out the kinks along the way. The
one thing I have gotten very good at that I believe is valuable when
it comes to rescues is timing. I know when Asti is "thinking" of
misbehaving -- I can see the cogs and wheels turning and I watch his
body language like a hawk -- I give him a soft, sharp, "uh-huh." He
then looks at me with this guilty, "how did she know what I was
planning?" look that is worth its weight in gold.
They are all so individual, it's kind of like opening a present to
see what you've got to work with. I marvel at the stories of some on
the list who tell tales of their dogs that scale five foot fences.
Asti hangs out on our large deck guarding the pond during the day.
The deck has a three foot high fence that he could jump over with
little effort. He's never challenged it. On the other hand, he's
astonishingly stubborn when it comes to drinking water. He loves "wild water" -- creeks, ponds, etc. and will only drink from a bowl
if he is beyond desperately thirsty. Go figure....
Much as I find puppies delightful, I think I will
always adopt rescues. I like the challenge and it feels good to know
I'm giving some lucky dog a second chance.
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